For all you step mommy’s out there.. how did you get your step kids to listen to you when their…
For all you step mommy’s out there.. how did you get your step kids to listen to you when their father wasn’t around? His son is 7 and daughter 11. They are constantly fighting and his daughter listens when I say stop. His son does not and thinks it’s funny.. he literally doesn’t listen when I tell him to do anything. It honestly makes me not want to have him by myself if he’s going to act this way. I haven’t talked to my S.O about it yet but I am tonight. I just wanted to see how y’all handled it.
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Honestly I send mine to there room or take whatever away and if it comes down to it I’ll spank them once they realize I would spank them and punished them they listen much better to me
Sharmane Trejo·
Girl, my mom would send me to my room and make me stay sitting in my bed, no toys, nothing. She could see my little ass from the living room couch too 😂 😂 😂 so if I tried to get up I'd get my butt spanked and have to sit on my bed longer.
Take away his toys, privileges, etc and send him to his room, I'm not sure what your dynamic is with spanking as a discipline but I always try to use that as a last resort. You've got to stay firm because he's going to keep pushing you.
Jennifer Lynn·
I know his parents don’t spank him so Idk how well that would go over with me. lol. Or else I definitely would have!! Idk if it’s okay for me to raise my voice with him.? His dad is usually with us and I’ve only had them maybe twice by myself and each time he’s a shit. I do yell but not excessively like some parents do cause idk if his dad would be upset. I’ve only been with him for 10 months so it hasn’t been a long time. I don’t want to over do it and him go tell his mom and start drama. Can’t stand baby mama drama!! But he definitely does need to learn I am here for the long run and won’t tolerate his shit! Thanks for the advice! I’ll definitely try the room thing and see where that leads me.
💎Jade💎·
@jennifer.a Id just tell him to respect you and behave or you gonna tell his dad and let him deal with it. Ground him from everything if need be. I have a 12 yr old stepson that likes to get an attitude when his dad isnt around and Im just straight up with him either listen or be grounded and plus he knows his dad would spank him so usually that shuts it down real quick.