Just a vent post. Me & SO have a lot of problems to the point our relationship turned into a toxic…
Just a vent post. Me & SO have a lot of problems to the point our relationship turned into a toxic relationship. I tried to go to counseling and talk to him but he would always do and say whatever I wanted to hear and few weeks after he was back to being the normal douche. Long story short we filed for divorced a few weeks ago after a huge argument we had and he tried to kick me and our daughter out. I've been trying to play nice and be civil about everything and made him clear that once everything is done with the divorce I'm moving back to my hometown in Texas where my family lives. For some reason he doesn't seem to get it though, he still trying to talk me into living with him after we divorce and he is still wanting to have intimacy with me until I move out even though I already told him I don't want anything to do with him. He killed all the love I had for him with his insults and name calling every time he was mad at me. Why would I want to be miserable all my life with a person like him? And why would I want to be intimate with a person that tells me I'm a useless cunt every chance he gets? And still somehow I'm the bad person for not wanting to be with him and not wanting to be intimate.
Sha·
Wow so he doesn't want to be married to u but he wants u to live with him and still be intimate with him? Smh men these days 🤦🏽♀️
Mama, I hope everything works out for you. Do what's best for you and your child.
Allyson Almeda·
Sounds like he never knew what he wanted from the start... Seems like all he wants to do is be a fuck boy and keep you around for convenience. I would skip town and go back home first chance you get after the divorce. I'm sorry if it seems harsh but when it comes to men who have no problem calling the woman they used to love names and treat them like shit, they will never love you again and it'll never change.
Jojo G. ·
@chasha2017, I’m the one that asked him for the divorced since he tried to kick me and our daughter for no reason. I guess he finally realized I wasn’t going to put up with the constant abuse and tried to scared me by kicking me out knowing I don’t know anybody in this state. I just find it funny that he thinks I’m still going cater to him and his needs, nope!
Jojo G. ·
@skylersmommy11916, I learned that the hard way! He abused me physically and emotionally for two years and I just stayed because I was afraid of being a single mother, but I had enough.
Allyson Almeda·
@abridanda I did the same thing with my son's father... I know how it is