Can we stop using motherhood as an excuse to be lazy and dirty? I mean yeah I understand not having time to do your dishes or fold your clothes, and shit like that i got a 6 month old who doesn’t like to nap or be put down.. so I usually do all of that when she goes to sleep for the night, but come on there’s time when you gotta draw a line not showering for 3 days and having roaches is just wow lol (about someone in my family)

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Anna·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

@girlmom., shit I’m working constantly again if I have another so glad I don’t have a labor horror story lol

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@annahasanovic, I had easy labors with my other girls too and I think that’s from always cleaning 😂

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Anna·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

@girlmom., thats how I am and was when I was pregnant I moved constantly and worked constantly I think that’s why I had such a easy labor with addi lol

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I’m sorry but there’s no excuse. I have 2 kids and hella pregnant and my house stays cleans...

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She’s not managing her time right, there is always time unless you got no sleep for the night then I get it. Most first time moms are like that tho. Especially with minimal help

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SANdRA🌸·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)

@annahasanovic naw thts jst plain lazyy!!!!! i have a sis in lae who didnt take care of herself she complained she couldnt cz her kids when they wrre lil so my mom would go ther to watch the kids so sh3 could shower....

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Anna·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

@lydia09876, I did that the first night home with addilynn I took a laxative and was like “sorry this is how you gotta spend your first night home baby” 😂

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Anna·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

@momoftwo1, yes!! I worked everyday except one when I was pregnant and still cleaned my house and I work again and still manage to get some shit done this lady is a stay at home mom I’m like how do you not find time? Like I understand a little mess and putting some chores off but girl you got bugs and body odor take care of yourself holy shit 😂😂 it’s nut but then when you say something it’s all like “you don’t understand your child isn’t like mine or older blah blah blah” like no I understand that you’re just lazy

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Anna·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

@vivi.luvs.abisai, definitely when I had postpartum after I delivered I didn’t feel like doing shit but it came to a point to where I got on Zoloft and snapped back into my holy shit i gotta clean everything self 😂 but yeah our house gets messy but least I don’t have roaches I couldn’t do it I’d die

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Lydia Smith·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@annahasanovic, me too I pull her ass in the bathroom with the bouncy even when I poop 😂

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SANdRA🌸·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)

thats so messed up!!! i have 2 demanding children n let me tell u i am sleep deprived but i could not let my house go dirty or myself.... like i have to shower in order to sleep i jst cnt otherwise lmao bt i totally agree w u... also there are many women who use pregnancy as an excuese too, i know some personally

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Anna·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

@lydia09876, that’s what my daughter has as well as asthma so I try not to let her get too upset because then she gets worked up and I gotta give her a treatment but I mean idk I still some how magically find my time to show I gotta have my shower lmao

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Lydia Smith·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

Sometimes you get a baby that does not sleep and cries all the time will not be able to be put down at all mine had acid reflux poor child cried 24-7 and still don’t sleep until this day but I managed to get it done ✅

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💕Vivian Aide Gonzalez 💕·Мама сына (8 лет)

I was lazy for 3 months lol my house was a disaster, not roaches though lol but once I was able to set a schedule with my son everything went sparkling again ✨ lol

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