Ladies I'm sorry if this is TMI but I've tryed having sex 3 times already the second time was okay but the last time hurted so bad, so it feels like my stuff is so tight maybe when I got stiches it made it tighter I be so scared but I'm so ready I hate that my husband has to wait but we tryed ky jelly it helps to a certain point is there anything else I can use and how long will I be like this, I thought maybe having a kid would loose it up and it slide right in