Since my husband wants to move I am not aloud to take my 2 oldest kids with us and my husband got…

Talk about selfish. Doesn't even care about the kid's well being or his wife. Yikes! Glad you stayed back.

He thinks you vent to your mom about what he does? Doesn’t he realize that your mom sees first hand how he acts when u have to go back to her when he kicks u out? Sounds like he doesn’t value all u guys. No man is worth leaving ur kids behind. That will mess with your kids heads psychologically.

@coookie, @julia1roxie, @nerualauren, that’s what I’ve tried explains to him. Our 1 year old is his first child and my oldest are his step kids so he doesn’t really full understand about being a parent. I’ve made sacrifices for my kids which he hasn’t. He thinks he’s doing this for us when it’s really just him running away from his problems that he has caused and doesn’t see that. The decisions he made put us in a very complicated situation that he doesn’t take fault for. He’s blaming me and my family for all of this happening.

My husband does that to when he gets mad but i dont go no where he cant kick you out of ur house stand up for ur self dont let him do that shit to you

@juliam27 yea, if I were you I would keep my distance. Because for you and your babies to keep going through something like that is not good for them mentally

@tinkcem85, I do stand up for myself but he ends up packin mine and the kids stuff. Then when my mom tells us to just go ahead and stay there he pulls the you never loved me card and says he’s going to leave me and blah blah blah. It’s almost an everyday thing and I’m fed up with his bullshit. I can’t handle this anymore and I told him if he doesn’t change then our marriage will never work. Once I know he’s about to start a fight I keep my mouth shut and even then he gets mad.

@julia1roxie, no it’s not and I tell him ok I’ll leave you alone I won’t bother you but it makes him even more mad because I’m trying to give him space to chill out and figure out what he really wants

@juliam27 he's just to selfish for you. You should never be made to feel like the bad guy. I hate knowing someone is going through this. I feel like he keeps putting you through this because he thinks your always going to come back and just take it. It's time for some major change on both ends. You being strong and holding your ground like your doing and him having a huge reality check and fixing his act. I hope things get better

@julia1roxie, thank you so much. I told him he’s not going to treat me like this. I fight back. I’m not going to be pushed around or be treated like some object. I told him I’m not a piece of meat. I’m a person who has feelings and you can’t control me and that’s what he hates. That’s mostly why he picks fights because he knows I won’t do what he wants me to do or listen to him. Im not someone who can be controlled or be treated like a piece of property

@juliam27 yesssss! I'm so proud of you!♡♡♡♡ stay strong beautiful. Nothing but amazing things happen to those who fight and keep pushing forward. Stay positive. We all have to go through some rain to get our rainbows.

@julia1roxie, thank you so much