So mad just received a letter that student loans took our taxes and now I have no clue how the hell…
So mad just received a letter that student loans took our taxes and now I have no clue how the hell we're going to make it hubby is worthless won't go work he expects me to find a job when I'm almost 32 weeks pregnant I can't even leave home for 5 mins he just lets kids get into anything and everything I just don't know what to do we're already behind on everything
Heather ·
Did you not have a payment plan or deferment setup for your loans?
Tosha Gager·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
I hade it in deferment but they haven't sent me anything in over a year they wanted me to make payments but I have no way of doing that
MamaKnowsBest·
Oh my gosh.... idk how u do it. My ex was like that and i swear im glad things didn't last.
Tosha Gager·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@bbyzvcy18 he wasn't like this before it just started this shit in September he says we're killing him he's over worked but he spends more time drinking with his friends then caring about us I'm getting fed up
MamaKnowsBest·
@toshagager Gosh... as if you dont do anything? These guys i tell you.
Tosha Gager·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@bbyzvcy18 I know right I'll be trying to get our 1yo to sleep I have to rock him and other kids will start fighting or something and he'll just sit there
MamaKnowsBest·
@toshagager Urgh.... that makes me so angry and worrying about mt man. He's good for now but people do change. I swear these guys.
Tosha Gager·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@bbyzvcy18 I don't know I've been with mine for almost half of my life I was 15 when we got together we split for a year but still had 2 kids together and got back together and got married our wedding anniversary is the 27th and I'll be 30 in July so he's really the only guy I've been in a relationship with
MamaKnowsBest·
@toshagager Oh wow!!!! 😍 That has been a very long time. Have you done OR considered couples therapy? I've never done it myself but ive heard that it has helped. Maybe hes just to comfortable esp when he knows that hes got a good women.
Tosha Gager·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@bbyzvcy18 no we couldn't afford it lol he wanted to when I left him it's just been bs lately he wants to fight over stupid shit or be an ass when he doesn't have any cigs he takes it out on me and trys to kick me out I refuse to leave I don't want to just give up