I seriously can't stand my boyfriend. Our relationship is coming to an end. Very quickly. And even…

Hopefully it gets better. Even if it ends you don't want his son's bad behavior towards you to rub off you your son.

@tiredmom thankfully the son we have together is a year in a half so his son from a different mother is 7 . So... With that being said they both showed no punishment in the child's behavior.

@kasonsmama my SD is 9 now, it was allot to handle when she first started coming around. But her dad made sure she knew she had to listen to me regardless of what her mom told her. She would tell her that I wasn't her parent so she didn't have to listen to me. But it's gotten better in the last 4yrs and we now have custody. That being said, if he wouldn't have backed me out I would have left because I wouldn't be able to deal with that amount of disrespectful behavior from the both of them.

@tiredmom I've been with him for 3 years and I knew his son at the age of 5 he will be 8 this year. His father told him he has to listen to me which he does when his dad isn't around and his dad never backs me up but gets mad when I have to yell. In this house no-one listens unless you yell or get hurt. Then people listen. It's so annoying. We have had custody since 2016 . Everything was fine up until a few weeks ago then it all went down hill. My boyfriend is acting weird and his son is going back to his old ways. Even made my boyfriend take a DNA test for our son who he and his family claimed he wasn't his. When I proved them wrong they all of a sudden said they knew he was the whole time. Yes OK. Our relationship has been based off his sons mom and his son. Not our relationship and our son and family we have counting his other son. Nope it's always been about his ex and his other son. He even has a daughter that he met the first time because of me and doesn't even see her anymore or talk with her. I talk to her more than him. I just have no fight left in me.

@kasonsmama oh damn, that's allot of bullshit to deal with. We yell here too, my kids are stubborn. But when it comes to parenting he has to back you up in front of the kids!! That's parenting tip #3, right after feed them and don't sell them. And if the kids listen to you as long as he's not around, then what is it about him being there that sets him off??

@tiredmom because he wants his dad to think all I do is tell at him. Even when my mom or friends are here they see the difference in the child's actions. He wants his dad to believe he's always stuck in the toy room being silent. And not out playing or talking. He wants his dad to think I'm this bad person. Even my family has told my boyfriend he doesn't act like that when he's gone. But to my boyfriend everyone lies.

@kasonsmama start taking videos. Don't let him see you doing it. But whenever you see him playing nicely or something just record it. You'll have proof and he can't argue with that. Kids can be very manipulative when they want to be. My SD would tell her mom that she hadn't ate while she was here just to get extra cake and stuff.🙄

@tiredmom I have. He still says it's not good enough. He can even be here sleeping and his son not know and he's good and as soon as he sees his dad he starts acting wild. Sometimes his dad believes me but not all the time. He sees it sometimes but even then he swears I'm being mean to him when I'm not.

@kasonsmama I see why you say you're done. That's rough, plus you have your son to raise.

@tiredmom yes. That's not even half of it. Not even an inch of it. Lol not even the icing on the cake LMAO

@kasonsmama you're handling it well though, they're all alive and you're not in jail or a mental hospital!!🙃