What were you doing right before you went in to labor? Did you know it was coming or was it a total…

I was sleeping and around 5am I woke up with bad pain and my husband forced me to go to the hospital and they told me I was in active labor but sent me home. So I walked and walked and did everything I could to go into labor and I started timing my contractions (3 min) so I went back in that night and they kept me. I KNEW it was time.

I was taking a shower when I went into labor. It was horrible!!

I was in and out of the hospital all weekend for protein in my urine. The first couple of days we brought all of our hospital bags but they kept sending us home. Then on Monday I went in, didn’t pack anything and they told me I was going to be induced. Told my husband to stay at work so I went into active labor without him at the hospital. Lol

I was waiting like a dumb ass for the baby daddy to get his ass home while in bad ass pains! His ass couldnt even drive us to hospital when he got home because he was high and drunk as hell. Gosh, I was dumb and naive 10 years ago... not that I'm any smarter now but to a certain extent I have grown.

When my mom went into labor with me she was playing super Mario bros until the contractions got too bad x)

@bbyzvcy18 you must have felt so alone and terrified. Either that or pissed.

@mct I was young and so stupid then. I was a complete dumb ass who had no self respect. I allowed him to step all over me and forgave him for everything even when he's never apologized. I never held him accountable for his stupid actions. His family had to drive us to the hospital that night and throughout the whole delivery which ended up with a C-section he was just acting like a paranoid sick F over his drugs and alcahol. During the procedure he wasnt even in the room with us... they had to go look for him at the family room after my baby came. When my baby came out he didnt even stay with us at the hospital. We were there for a whole week and he would come visit BUT only slept with us for like 2 out of the 6 nights there. Not to mention while my baby and I were recovering in the hospital he got the clever idea to quit his job. You would think since he quitted that he would make time for us... F no he didnt. Ok... ok... getting carried away with this angry memory within me. Lol. Sorry. Anyways overall it was my fault that i didn't stand my ground and instead i thought I should had been that "sincere and understanding" kind of wife... only to get it back fire at me right in the head!

@bbyzvcy18 I'm so sorry you went through that. We have all been there and done young stupid things, but it doesn't mean you deserved it. I'm so glad you got out. My heart feels for you! I can't believe how much courage you had. Going through my C-section was rough. I could have never done it without help! Your one tough awesome Mama!!

@mct Aww thank you. I try.