Why do girls always have to compete with other girls ? Why do we always judge each other ? Why can’t…
Why do girls always have to compete with other girls ? Why do we always judge each other ? Why can’t we smile at each other and give compliments rather than dirty ass salty looks and cruel words .. I’m the type of girl that if I see you I will be like omgggg she’s so pretty! I wanna be her friend.. I hate how we’re all against each other and fake to one another. I’m pretty damn sure I’m the only one who feels this way too .. I’m tired of it ! Everywhere I go there is always some girl tryna start drama with me ! I’m a very sweet and considerate person I swear
Jenifer Lazarus·
YES!!! I posted a similar post a few days ago. Being nice isn't hard!
Aurora·
@momma_lazarus, right! It’s ridiculous
Jenifer Lazarus·
@madismommy it makes me sad how petty girls are to one another. I actually was commenting a post the other day because it upset me so much. It was a post that "real" beauty is without makeup and girls that wear tons of makeup are fake. Pretty much she was saying she's lucky because she looks good without makeup blah blah blah. After explaining that real beauty is on the inside I never heard from her again but man, I was like why are girls so petty!! Who cares who wears makeup and who doesn't. Just because you think someone doesn't look good, doesn't mean that defines them! Ugh. I was so frustrated!
Aurora·
@momma_lazarus, I totally agree girl! It sucks! I wish we could all just get along 😩😰
Jenifer Lazarus·
@madismommy women already have SO much pressure to be "perfect" so as women ourselves I feel like we should understand that and be kind. (Sorry I'm going off, I just can't stand women degrading other women. It's my biggest pet peeve.)
Aurora·
@momma_lazarus, it’s totally fine! And that’s exactly how I feel.. it makes me sad! No matter where I go every woman always thinks she’s better than me .. I hate how they judge an they don’t even know me!
Aurora·
I think we should all be with each other rather than against each other @momma_lazarus,
Aurora·
@momma_lazarus, you’re beautiful by the way your makeup is on point lol
Jenifer Lazarus·
@madismommy Yes, exactly!! I can't stand that! It happens SO much too. So many people tell me, I thought you would be stuck up and a B**** before I became your friend. I always get so annoyed because that's not fair at all. I know judging right away isn't always on purpose but being open minded helps with that! I try to give everyone a chance before I form an opinion. But one look at you and someone thinks they know you and start labeling you
Jenifer Lazarus·
@madismommy thank you!! So are you! Makeup is my best hobby 😉 although 90% of the time I look like a train wreck haha! 2 toddlers and pregnancy is rough 😂
Aurora·
@momma_lazarus, yess right! I guess this society just sucks.. and I fear for when my baby girl starts going to school.. You’re welcome! & thank you:) you’re real good at it!i love makeup but I suck at it 😂😂 I just wear some eyebrow filler and some mascara and call it good 😂😩 I looovveee looking at different kinds of makeup and styles ! I need to learn more lol!
Jenifer Lazarus·
I have the same fear! I'm just gonna make sure to remind my daughter how to be no matter what! I learned everything I know from YouTube, Jaclyn Hill. I've loved her since she first started YouTube. (If you know who she is, not sure how much makeup stuff you watch!) Simple makeup is how it begins! Practice makes perfect! And high end makeup isn't always the best makeup. Just a tip. 😉
Aurora·
@momma_lazarus, same here ! It’s just scary though! I don’t want other little girls or even little boys picking on her .. and making her feel shitty about herself because that’s all people know how to do now days! & I’ve never heard of her but I’m definitely gonna look her up and check her out lol! & that’s what I’ve heard! That’s understandable:)
Jenifer Lazarus·
@madismommy I want to teach my daughter and son to be strong but still compassionate. It's so stressful to raise kids this day in age. And omg. She started from YouTube and is now pretty much famous because of how amazing she is. She came out with an eyeshadow palette recently and that's actually what I'm wearing on my eyes in my picture. She's just great. The queen of makeup!
Aurora·
@momma_lazarus, same here ! You’re absolutely right! And in the future I bet it’s gonna be even harder .. I just hope no one ever makes her feel like she wants to kill her self ! Or so bad things .. & I love the color that your wearing in your pic! I’m gonna go watch her right now lol
Jenifer Lazarus·
@madismommy it's scary to think those things. I know what you mean! She's great, I hope you like her! She has such a strong personality so sometimes people don't like her but I think she's the best!