Everyone's at work and don't finish until about 5 Delilah just won't stop crying due to wind and I…
Everyone's at work and don't finish until about 5 Delilah just won't stop crying due to wind and I have the biggest headache and it's not like I can go out and get any medication as I live in a flat and need help getting down the stairs with all her stuff and my partner used my money to fix his flat tire and is suppose to pay me back today after work. today's the only day I've really felt stressed since delilah's been born. My partner tries so hard to help me but he works 6 days a week from 6-5 and has her on the odd day he's off but I just feel alone doing it at the moment even though my mum helps so much and has her when she can 😣😣I know it's not delilah's fault I just wish I could get rid of her pain it seems today every time she cries I cry and it's making my headache worse.
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Oh babe you really need to speak to someone and get some help. Speak to your health visitor or doctor about how you’re feeling xx
Courtnie·
Try put her on your chest with her head over your shoulder and bounce gently that always use to work for Harper’s wind xx
Kate Bodell·
Your hormones are still all over the place and it does feel very overwhelming. Shes still brand new and you are her only comfort. Put her into her crib or moses basket, make sure shes safe and just go sit in a different room for 5 minutes and calm yourself down and reset. Let her scream, shes in her crib, shes safe. Once you've reset go get her and giver her a good cuddle and a gentle bounce on your knee and try get that wind up.
There is no shame in feeling overwhelmed or needing a break. Yes its important to look after your baby but you also need to look after yourself. Happy mummy happy baby. X
theodoresmammy·
Being a mother is hard, no one tells you how lonely it will be or how tired and stressed you'll be. Especially on those days when baby is crying a lot. Have you tried laying her on her tummy across your lap and patting her back?
I second what kayteamay said, put her down in her crib and let her cry. Go and make yourself a cup of tea. I'm pretty sure we've all had to just leave our baby cry at least once! You're more use to her when you're relaxed than when you're stressed out.
If you've made it to three weeks without feeling stressed then you're doing a great job! X
Francesca Louise ·
Have u got a baby carrier? X@linkofhyrule
Courtney Sutton·
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@melanie-spiritmedium I've spoke to my doctor he just told me to wait a few months and see how I feel then notice how useful his information was I don't see my health visitor until April x
Courtney Sutton·
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Thank you all feeling a tad better x
Courtney Sutton·
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@chesscalouise I do but she doesn't really fit yet xx
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@linkofhyrule, They’re always on the end of the phone if you need them, your midwife will still be helpful too hun even just a quick chat may make you feel better. It’s not easy being a mum but @kayteamay, made a good point about needing to look after yourself as well as baby xx
Francesca Louise ·
Get a sling there fine from birth xx @linkofhyrule
Courtney Sutton·
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@chesscalouise any idea where to get one?
Francesca Louise ·
Amazon @linkofhyrule
Courtney Sutton·
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@chesscalouise ok thank you
Sammy ·
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They have some baby carriers (ones that go on your front) in argos on there baby event. Not sure what they like though but just thought id say. Hope you are okay ?x