Okay ladies I need relationship advice here (long lost). So I'm 18 weeks pregnant and the guy I'm with is not the…
Okay ladies I need relationship advice here (long lost). So I'm 18 weeks pregnant and the guy I'm with is not the father, he's an ex that I got back with after I found out I was pregnant. The first time we broke up is because he was messaging other women trying to hook up with them fortunately these women found out he was in a relationship and messaged me on Facebook before anything actually happened. We broke up because he lied to me about every single girl who messaged me keep in mind there were five of them and they all sent me proof of messages between them. Well almost a week ago we were in the car he ran into the gas station and left his phone In the car well I got into it and was looking through it ( I have trust issues with this man) and what'd I see, I saw messages between him and other girls. One was from an "old friend" with him saying he "wished he had her a long time ago" to Snapchat him he "wants to see her" another message was to his best friend girlfriends sister with her asking him to come over and watch a movie and cuddle with her knowing he has a girlfriend. I absolutely love this man but I have absolutely no trust left for him and I'm tired of everything he does getting turned around on me. How do I walk away without wanting to just go back? I know we don't need to be together but it's hard just thinking about leaving.
sherry S·
#1 it didn't work out before for Same issues#2 he's showing you no respect..and #3 you don't want to have to babysit your man...your a beautiful girl .there's men who will make you their top priority
Kaitlyn Hayden ·
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@sherrynygirl, thank you
sherry S·
@kaitlyn_hayden08 he should be scared to lose you..I have been with my man now almost 17 yrs has to have respect at all times..just some advice for the future people will do what u allow them...he either stops 100% or he should stay single for life and it will bite him in ass when he's an old guy and alone!
Jaqueline Pearce·
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Relationships rely on trust. If you dont trust him I would end it before you let him meet your child. You don't want your child to get close to him and then something happen and y'all break up. The child will be so confused. Ive seen it happen to too many families and it breaks my heart every time i see it. Anyways if he is messaging other girls, no offense but I find that shitty to do to someone. You deserve better than to have someone cheat on you. The way I look at things, if you are in a relationship with someone and you're even just flirting with someone that's cheating. Girl, get yourself a better man
MamaKnowsBest·
It's always easier said then done when it comes to leaving a person that youve had a relationship with. To be honest maybe you just arent ready to leave him yet? And theres absolutely nothing wrong with that unless he is mentally or physically abusing you.
BUT let me tell you something dear.... allthough it may be hard at the moment... i can guarantee you that after you have your baby your entire focus will shift on who is important in your life and who is not. You'd be able to decide who is capable of being around your baby and who is not.
Whether a boy or girl, any Mama in their right mind will come to a realization who is worthful to stay and whos not. By then i'm sure that if he is not trying to prove himself then it'd be easier for you to let go.
Coco·
Know your value. Life is too short. It hurts, and it can be lonely at times but its far healthier to sometimes be alone. You’re not married you have no kids... No ties get out whilst you can.
Amber·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
It’s always hard at first but it gets easier with time. The sooner the better, if he was really the right one, he would love you and respect you enough and you’d be the only one. #staystrong