I wanna drown his PlayStation 😡

@avahcruz looks like i need to give my man a wake up call! Funny how they think they can just let you do all the work and completely change your life after having a baby, THEIR baby. Uhh hello, you became a parent too. Men...

I also told him now that things are changing “I can’t ever tell you ‘I don’t want you playing games’ because I shouldn’t have to say that. Either I’m a priority to you, or the games are. I want you to have your hobby, everyone deserves something to enjoy, but you’re totally abusing it and you know how it makes me feel” girl he has gotten sooooo much better it’s amazing

Yeah there was one day I needed a shower so I asked him to keep an eye on our son, and I can hear him crying, I came out again asking him to help him, then I hear him getting mad at our TEN MONTH OLD for touching his remote while he plays, I turned off his play station and told him to leave, then he ignored me the whole day while I was with our son. This has been going on for forever, he told me he didn’t want to be with me because I turned his game off, I was like okay 👌🏻 we made a separation plan, kept everything peaceful, and the next morning he’s acting like everything is fine between us, I was like “I know you’re still here until you can find a place to live, but that doesn’t mean we’re together” and that’s when it really hit him I think, like “wow she’s seriously not putting up with what I’m doing and will leave” he was remorseful and has been putting in some serious effort. At that point I was separated and I was going to figure out how to be a single mom, because I felt like one and that’s not okay. Don’t settle for less, maybe that’s why your SO doesn’t change, because he feels like you’re his, and that you’re going to stay with him regardless. He needs a taste of reality, or some other woman who’s okay with it. He needs to man up or move on.

@avahcruz that's where I'm at right now. He'll even say he's "working late" and he goes over to a friend's house and games and does other stupid things. I feel like a single mom :(

My husband was like that and it got to a pretty extreme point mixed with other problems in our relationship and we almost split up