So I’m at the doctors today with the kids dad and Tammy doctor is like u should go see the lactation lady. And later on during the day, he’s like ooh what’s there? And I’m like they pretty much help me breast feed her. And he’s like ooh r they men or women? Haha. And I’m like y does it matter? And he goes ooh what I’m not allowed to care who sees u anymore? Um confused much?