So ladies I need to ask. Did any of your marriages or relationships change for the worst once you had children. If so…

@mikaylanichol101, right. That’s what I’m saying girl. Lol

Oh shit. I didn’t know you were pregnant again. Your going to have to wait. You could leave but it is even harder now that your pregnant

@mikaylanichol101, I know that and that’s the plan but what I meant was I can’t leave now because of the fact I’m a stay at home mom right now. I’ve been looking for work but because I’m pregnant again no one wants to hire me knowing I’ll be gone in like 4.5-5 mths

@lisach_2000, I’ve found myself with the same problem. But you can’t be on your own and be a stay at home mom unless your Reyna sit on welfare. You have to put your child in daycare and go to work.

I have looked into that as well. Unless he beats me they can’t help me cause I don’t like him

How about community resources? Find out what's available for you

@pnutbutta, it’s been 2 yrs and it’s only getting worse. I need to get out. But how? I have no family around, I’m a stay at home mom with no money or job. I just feel trapped with no way out. 😪

Sorry I was referring to mikaylanichol.

I thought I responded to your post as well.

I think it's normal for there to be a change in a relationship when a 3rd party enters into it. New issues arise...money,mpre than before,responsibilities etc... sometimes u wait it out to see if things will change and settle and sometimes they do and you know the relationship is not for you.

If you are done start preparing to leave. Save money,support from friends and family etc, look for somewhere to go if you are going to leave.

Or

Talk to your spouse about the issues and try to work it out

@mikaylanichol101, my biggest problem is I’m a stay at home mom. How do I leave with no money or job. I feel so stuck

@pnutbutta, I have no family. What Xmas dinner hun ?

@mikaylanichol101 you can do it. Just seek the support and knowledge you need and we are all here for you as well. I don't think your family will dessert you. Do what's best but also be ready.

I do have a lot of family. They are very supportive but none of them are happy that I have a daughter. Im ready to do it on my own. Im kinda scared but I think its best.

@mikaylanichol101 Can U Go To Family? I remember at Christmas you had a big family dinner to go to.

Our relationship was messed up from the start. Then I got pregnant and we didn't break up. Im so close to done as well. Im just tryna set myself up before I go. So that I don't leave and have no where to go