Reaching out to my husband about my physical and mental anguish causing a henderance on bonding and…

Reaching out to my husband about my physical and mental anguish causing a henderance on bonding and my abilities to help Mowgli get into motion (ie crawling, scooting, holding him for extended periods of time, helping him stand etc) did me no good what so ever.

He just got an attitude and said "Sorry nothing I do helps" like what the fuck- this isn't about you. Listening because you care is how to help, not acting like its all about him. Thats usually the case though...

I should know better by now. Anytime I complain about an ache or a pain he acts like his pains are more important...

For instance, I've had this terrible pain in my solar plexus for about a week now, but his back is more important, yet he doesn't want to see a dr, and I would really like to. I've also been getting these headaches for about a month that are nothing like my typical migraine, and fear the worst, but when mentioned he goes right back to his back- which i bet everyone here a cupcake that hes got a kidney infection- he just doesn't care to listen to that- I guess it makes too much sense