Me and my bf are trying to get pregnant and before we started trying I had told him I wanted to be engaged before we start trying. A year has passed since that conversation and still hasn't asked. It wouldn't bother me as much if I were a more secure person, but with my past I don't know if I can just trust he will eventually ask me. I don't want to get engaged after I get pregnant cause then it looks like we just did it because we have to. Its so frustrating and more hurtful because my ex did this to me for years and just brings back that hurt of feeling like it'll never happen.