Did anyone else have a strain on their relationship when they had their first baby!? I feel so distant from my other half and it's effecting me more than the sleepless nights and endless feeds 😔 I miss him and he is right there... Pfffft feeling naff
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Yeah Hun. Every little thing that happened annoyed me & I was an emotional wreck over the smallest of things. We started to make time for each other and do little things that reminded each other we loved them. Try and sit down with each other and talk. Hope everything's better for you soon hunny xx
Yeah it did for me at first. It's a big change from just been the 2 of you to going to 3 of you. It's hard but it will get easier! Talking to eachother is a big thing though you deffo need to communicate with each other and always take help! X
Yes. No one ever talks about it pre-baby or post for that matter. I was never emotional while pregnant but the baby blues hit me hard. A newborn takes a toll on the strongest relationship. I felt disconnected from my husband & everything he did annoyed me. I felt lonely (yes lonely). We weren't feeling like a couple.
Talk to each other. Remind each other that your a couple. Have some free time to yourselves & time together. If only turning your mobiles off and snuggling watching a film together if you can't go out. You will get through it. We went through it both with our 1st and 2nd! Newborns are the sweetest but you feel like a robot for a while. For us getting our evenings back made a big difference. Just having those few hours just us. So don't worry 👍
@emilyjayne27 @abbyrose @sara-lou86 thankyou ladies I feel a little better I think we're both just exhausted and grinding on each others nerves but we love each other so we will manage it's just hard work finding time for each other now we have Miley to prioritise xx