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@artial_06, don’t we all. It’s part of life.

@shyia722 thanks. Wish things were different

@artial_06, see and you have your answer. Be happy for once. Enjoy the space you have, come up with a plan for your child, and focus on being happy for you for once. U can avoid the drama by eliminating what’s causing it, which is him.

@shyia722, That’s the thing it’s all bullshit I remind him of birthdays, events the whole nine the other mothers don’t like me so I text from his phone asking can they come over so he’s full of it. But yea I’m at that point it’s to much back and forth. I don’t feel sad I didn’t even drop a tear and That’s the scary part because I’m a cry baby

@artial_06, if your heart isn’t in it don’t try and force it. That would be stopping your own happiness if it’s something that u really don’t want. As for his other kids, if being with u is stoping him for caring for his other kids, then let him know as a woman you would never want to come in between him and his other children so maybe it’s better you guys stay apart. And come up with a plan to take care of your child once it’s born

Now he won’t stop calling telling me he’s in love with me and wants to come back home

I thought that in the beginning it seemed easy to just let go until he continue to beg to come back. Now it’s another story told me him being with me stopped him from caring for his other kids.

@artial_06, well maybe he felt like you weren’t in love with him. Maybe it’s for the better, why keep yourself unhappy because you want your child’s father to in his life. My daughters father and I have a great relationship when it comes to co parenting. We have a set schedule and money routine. We are both in different relationships and it works for everyone. Make yourself happy and everything else will fall into place.

@artial_06, well maybe he felt like you weren’t in love with him. Maybe it’s for the better, why keep yourself unhappy because you want your child’s father to in his life. My daughters father and I have a great relationship when it comes to co parenting. We have a set schedule and money routine. We are both in different relationships and it works for everyone. Make yourself happy and everything else will fall into place.

Honestly I don’t know where to start! I’m 7 months pregnant and my child’s father up and decided today he needed space. It’s crazy because I’m not in love with him I stayed because I wanted my child to have her father