There's also an incident that happened in Ottawa last month with my husband dad. He touched my butt as he said good morning . I told my husband I don't feel comfortable around his dad. And how I know it was something he did that wasn't meant to be . I forgive but it will be hard to forget . Now whenever my own husband touches my bum I get a flash back and feel uncomfortable. I also feel as if I ruined their relationship . How do I go about this? He called and left a msg saying he's sorry but not for the touching .ohh and way before all of this he called my phone at 3am asking for an escort service. He doesn't remember anything and if we bring it up it will just cause another drama .