One night of taking care of our crazy almost two year old, and he can't do it. He is supposed to go…
One night of taking care of our crazy almost two year old, and he can't do it. He is supposed to go to the store for us before work at noon. I tried to tell him he needs to go to the store and he yelled at me "Are you fucking serious? I took care of him ALL night so you could sleep. He was up all night. I WILL sleep before I go to work. You can go. I'll give you money." Yeah he's up all night everyyyyyy niiiiight. I get no sleep. I lost my job because of him. I just bought him $30 worth of cleaning supplies and helped clean up his NASTY apartment from the past two months he ignored us and got fucked up and messed the whole apartment up.
Steph·
Just some words of wisdom, it isn't going to get better and as sad as it is that's the harsh truth. Rant after rant disappointment after disappointment let down after let down, stop letting him have that control over you and your child. Assuming from your posts his actions are repetitive and maybe he wouldn't be able to do that over and over if you wouldn't let him continue to do so. I'm sure it's hard but think about it, you and your kids deserve better. You guys don't need him ❤
babymay2016·
@sjo1 You're totally right, but I only brought my son here because my parents house is totally trashed and they won't help me clean up. My male cat sprayed my entire living room with his pee and on all my sons belongings. My son was going nuts being cooped up in our room there and has no room to play. Everything is clean here because I forced him to call into work and clean. He is now about to go to the store..... I don't know why he had to be such a dick and I didn't expect him to go. But he is going. I just need food for my son today and everything is golden. For the day at least....
Jess🌹♥️·
🤔.. tell him suck it the fuck up. it's called terrible twos for a reason, ACTUALLY it's called being a parent. I'm sorry you're going through that, it sounds like he doesn't exactly know what goes on in the day-to-day and he freaked our when it all fell on him. which it shouldn't. he should be able to handle your son without you, he's his too.
Steph·
@babymay2016 you should try looking into getting your own low income apt.
babymay2016·
@sjo1 I am in the process of doing that, but I also lost my job earlier this month. Basically from missing work anytime my son was sick or had nobody to watch him, obviously I had to be with him. It is not impossible to find somewhere with no job, but very difficult.
babymay2016·
@boymamachronicles Yes that is exactly what happened and my son has really transformed into a little monster over the course of two months and he doesn't know how to handle him. He needs to learn and take some responsibility. It is hard work and he didn't believe me our son stays up like this every night. That he won't eat certain things and with everything. Just last night he watched him for an hour and he was like " wow I was mad the blinds were open and then I figured out real quick why they all were open. And he does throw his food. I should have got him the grilled cheese like you said" And now this morning he wants to get frustrated with me "I been up all night with him so YOU could sleep." He is on his way to the store... whatever I said I guess made actual sense. I hope I don't knoe