Now the baby's fathers gf quit him and got another bf!!!! Now he's coming bac!! Talked to him last nite!!! What shud I do let him bac??? What's best for the baby?????
@rhodahurst99, just because he doesn’t treat you bad doesn’t mean he’s not going to treat you baby well. Men who tell you to abort your baby have no interest in being fathers. & the fact that he’s trying to get back with you just bc his ex gf doesn’t want him raises a red flag for me. Hopefully he’s sincere though and ends up loving the baby & treating both of you right
He don't treat me bad!! He's gonna hav to giv me time and time to prove himself
What’s Love got to do with it, hun?
Be careful too. Letting him come and go will allow him to bring something home and pass it to you and baby. Pregnancy isn’t easy and it can get lonely.. But don’t give in to someone who will only treat you like crap and leave you and baby the next chance.
@rhodahurst99, from your other statuses, he wanted you to abort the baby? idk, if it were me i wouldn’t do it bc that’s not a good idea. If he didn’t want the baby before the baby is here, he’s not gonna have any interest when the baby is actually here. Guys are really good at telling you what you wanna hear, & unfortunately we always give in & let them back into our lives especially when they don’t deserve it
But I love him and it seems only rite to give him a chance since its his baby
If the only reason he’s coming back is bc his gf got a new bf, he’s using you as a second option. Seems to me like he doesn’t wanna be alone. Tbh sounds like he doesn’t care about anyone but himself & it would be best for the baby to not be with someone like that bc 9 times outta 10 it won’t work out. I know this from experience
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