I feel bad because well my cousin is soooo sweet and I know she has a heart of gold and she’s gonna…

I feel bad because well my cousin is soooo sweet and I know she has a heart of gold and she’s gonna be my sons godmother BUT her husband is a moron and they fight 24/7 and my husband feels that if JJ stays over she won’t pay mind and I feel the same because she’s on the phone with him 24/7 he’s in another country currently but she wants to stay with him so bad and I keep making up excuses 😞 I’m torn