Ladies how would you feel if your friend tells you she hasn’t been around to see your child because…

maybe her best friend can't take care of her daughter and there's nobody else except her that can. idk. 🤔

@boymamachronicles, that’s what I was thinking to but idk her business you know. But to neglect my child for several months at a time and come back and say the things you say is hurtful to me. I guess I’m overeating cause I don’t want my baby to be hurt by an in and out relationship

@kimmommyof2angels she's just a friend. friends come and go, your baby will always you, mama that's all they need at this age.

@boymamachronicles, that’s true thank you I guess it’s these hormones that got me in my feelings.

@kimmommyof2angels don't even let it get to you girl. if she doesn't want to be around, it's her loss.

@boymamachronicles, that’s true thank you so much

I agree with @boymamachronicles . It's your friends loss.

@kimmommyof2angels, if she is a good friend of yours, she may not mean to hurt you or put your son in a dismissive term. If she is going to adopt someone, she must be going through a lot herself.. not trying to defend her but it could just be that “not having time” means that she’s got a lot on her plate right now and not that she doesn’t have time for you son.. just a thought! 😉How long have you guys been friends for?

@sandycmossi, we been friends for 5 years, and no your fine all opinions are welcome. But she claims to wanna be my sons godmother and all but I understand how it is to be busy so I’m not judging her on that but she only comes around when she wants something and that’s when she has her excuses.

@taylorsmommy1017, I hear where you coming from and she wants to be his godmother but she’s always coming up with excuses and she says she wants to adopt in which I’m happy for her but she’s not even stable it’s more to the story I don’t want to put her business out in the open

@taylorsmommy1017, you right thank you Taylor for your opinion

@kimmommyof2angels, I totally understand you! Sucks that she will only come along if she needs something from you but if she wants to be a godmother you can try to share with her these thoughts and concerns you have, the good thing is you get to decide if she is the right fit for that title. 👍 How old is your son?

@sandycmossi, I have voiced my concerns many times before and all she said is what she’s done for me in the past should count but that doesn’t matter to me, what matters to me is what has she done for my son and the only thing she’s done is get him a car seat and maybe 1 box of diapers. And he’s almost 2 in April

Being his godmother is a commitment, it sounds like one she's not prepared for, to me it sounds like she's stringing your friendship along to get what she needs/wants without thought of you and your son's feelings, you don't shove the past in someone's face to prove your point, especially when whatever she did in the past for you was supposed to be out of love, it sounds like you've already repaid her past kindnesses anyway. If it were me I'd slowly start to distance myself emotionally since you've tried to say how you feel to no avail, she just doesn't sound like good friend material. But that's just my opinion.

The advice I'd give is to drop your expectations of her, it seems she may never be the kind of friend your hoping she will be.

I could be way off, she really could just be busy. But all the other stuff you said just doesn't jive with that.

@kimmommyof2angels, I totally understand you, from what you are sharing she may not be the right godmother for your son. 😒