Mommas, I need opinions & advice! My baby daddy and I are officially “over” by him and at first we were on a break and…
Mommas, I need opinions & advice!
My baby daddy and I are officially “over” by him and at first we were on a break and said we would try to work out things but then I guess I fucked that up. He says that one day he’ll look at my phone and if he doesn’t see me talking to any guys then we can “start” a relationship and he’ll trust me again.. 🤦🏻♀️ I love him to death and I want to make things work but I’ve been waiting for him for so long now and for us to restart, it’s just been tearing me apart most of the time 😪
Muva Tings·
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So it seems like the question is do you think he's worth waiting for? If he decides to start dating other people will you be able to move on or do you think you'll hold out.
Muva Tings·
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There's always the chance he sees his baby and is ready to try to start a family and trust you again. But, are you ready to be possibly a little lonely relationship wise until then?
💙✨ 𝓚𝓪𝓵𝓮𝓪 ✨💙·
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@muva.tings2018, I hope he doesn’t move on.. he said he doesn’t want to yet but he’s just tired of how things aren’t working. And I think I’ll hold out.. I can’t imagine moving on rn even if I tried to, it wouldn’t work.. And yeah, that’s true.. I guess if that’s what I gotta do then yeah 🤷🏻♀️😣
Muva Tings·
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@mixedmomma2018 well then we've got our answer, if he's not ready to move on and you've got to get that trust back work on a friendship again get to know each other again and build from there.
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@muva.tings2018, okay.. well thank you. That just seems like it’ll be hard though
Muva Tings·
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@mixedmomma2018 im sure trying to be friends and take things slow will be extremely hard but for the sake of your growing family give it a chance.
Bella Carter·
If he really loves you he will work through things with you . It’s all to easy to blame the other person and it sounds like to me he wanted to leave he just needed a reason but I understand believe me I’m in the same situation in a way and we been separated a year almost . If it’s meant to be it will be concentrate more on being friends and having fun with eachother !
Loyanna Hunter·
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I would say just leave him alone. I went threw the same thing with my ex and al he would tell me is that he doesn’t want it right now and I would sit up and worry try to talk to him about it and it made it worse because deep down he didn’t want it. So I just let it be. I worked on myself and focused on my baby and it took away the pain. Not right away but slowly it did. I could eventually go the dr appointments and not look at him and hurt. Once I did that it was clear to me that he didn’t want what me until it was to late. I moved on and made better for myself and that’s when he wanted to come back. Well sorry but I deserve better