Please, I need advice. So I have until December to decide if I want to get out of the military or…
Please, I need advice.
So I have until December to decide if I want to get out of the military or not. Officially enrolling Aiden into daycare today has made me wish I could stay home with him until he’s 1. Technically I could get out and then just rejoin again in a year, but I feel like that’s another year of me not being in college and I also don’t want to not have an income. But at the same time with the schedule I’m on, I will only get to spend 1 hour a day with him on weekdays (7am-5pm for work, 5pm-6pm for gym, pick him up from daycare at 6pm, then his bedtime is at 7). Not to mention 6 month long deployments. I’m conflicted.
Emily·
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I would get out of The Military. Family is more important. Only being able to see your son for an hour is super sad and would be so hard on him. He needs his mommy. Family comes first. Especially your son. The best part is all of the wonderful Bonding you two will get to do. Bonding is so very wonderful!! ♡♡.
Raina·
@zackemilymcguire, I’m literally in tears at the thought of going back to work on the 5th. But I’m not sure that we’d be able to live on just my husbands paycheck (he’s in the military too but neither of us are high ranking yet).
Emily·
Мама сына-младенца
@dobbbbi478 That really sucks. I am so sorry. I totally understand though. Money is important too. I guess that making money is also important, so then you can support your son. I am so sorry! :'(.