So I've let my sis use my sons infant carseat since her daughter was born, she's 1 year and 2 months…
So I've let my sis use my sons infant carseat since her daughter was born, she's 1 year and 2 months old now, would it be rude to ask for the carseat back tomorrow before they move away??? Like she has another infant carseat for her that's in my moms van and my sis has also several toddler seats and she won't be in the baby one much longer but I don't want her to take the carseat for years to come and it get damaged or dirtied up. Or even molded when she eventually stores it in a storage building when she outgrows it. Not saying ima have any babies any time soon but that's my sons first carseat I actually saved up and bought before he was born I got it with the matching stroller and whenever I plan to have another they will use it if it's not expired by then that is lol. I just don't know how to ask about it without sounding rude or greedy. Cause she does and has let me borrow all her sons clothes jackets shoes for my son since he was born. She's helped me so much and I'm thankful so I do the same for my niece. But like I said I don't want it dirtied up or my nephew drawing on it or anything like that...
Kadie🌙·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I don’t think it’s rude to ask for it back. Now if she thought you had given it to her she might be confused but as long as she knew it was just being borrowed lol should be fine. Clothes are different than a car seat. I still have my daughters infant car seat too lol.
Lovemyminime·
Yeah cause I know when she had her son almost 5 years ago they moved into a place and she stored her sons baby carseat in a storage building and it ended up molded and she threw it away. Idk I just have an attachment to my sons things lol. Like I plan on giving my sis all the clothes she let me borrow cause I know they're not mine ya know. I just didn't want her to catch me by coming off rude or greedy cause she's tenderhearted and takes things the wrong way lol. Ima hoard all my sons things for the rest of my life lmao
Lovemyminime·
Only thing is her husband has her truck that has my carseat in it. He went to stay with his dad in a hotel tonight and I'm not sure if he's going to bring the truck back or just only bring the uhaul tomorrow smh. I probably should ask her about it tonight
Tera·
Мама сына (1 год)
No it’s not rude that your car seat the end of the day