I know it’s early but I honestly feel like I’m going through this pregnancy all alone. I know we’re…
I know it’s early but I honestly feel like I’m going through this pregnancy all alone. I know we’re not together but I don’t ask for much. Like he makes me feel bad when I want him to comfort me when I’m in pain and not feeling good because it’s not like I’m gonna go to another man to comfort me.. I don’t know what to do. He says he saw me crying last might but didn’t say anything because he “didn’t want to get involved with it” and he “didn’t want to stress”. He said that it’s just the same cycle over again because I ask for him to comfort me and then if he does it, I’ll just keep wanting more but that’s not the truth.. he also says that I’m just stressing over simple shit, but its not simple to me... I just want him to be there for me... that’s all I ask..
Jeny Laielli·
Does he have a girlfriend
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@larubia2723, no.. we’re just on a break..
Jeny Laielli·
@mixedmomma2018 ok. I think he prb messing around cuz if ya on a break inthink he should still b there and he makin it seem like he has someone else in his life tbh
Jeny Laielli·
And honeslty breaks to me r fake ..
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@larubia2723, he’s cheated on me before.. he said he wouldn’t talk to other females while we’re on this break but I’m still scared..
Jeny Laielli·
@mixedmomma2018 and i hope u dont believe him ma ...he sound like a complete asshole to me if he cnt even confort u while u crying n pregnant with his child ...
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@larubia2723, yeah.. I know.. I don’t know what to do..
Jeny Laielli·
Talk to him and if he dont want to b a part of u and his child than move on cuz he prb telling u he not messing around that way u dont mess around fts
Jeny Laielli·
And try n b with someone who will b there for u
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@larubia2723, I talked to him last night and what I said in my post is the shit he says back..
Jeny Laielli·
Cuz is hard going thru pregnancy all alone
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@larubia2723, yeah.. I just wanna be happy ..
🌸👣💕 Channin 💕👣🌸·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
I feel alone too and to make it even worse I'm on house arrest at my moms with my first pregnancy and feeling all hormonal without him by my side idk he looks at it as a not a forever thing so I'm being a baby. Idk it just fukn suxs
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@shanolas1st, why’re you on house arrest? But I feel it 😩
🌸👣💕 Channin 💕👣🌸·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@mixedmomma2018 I caught a felony charge, first time ever in trouble or even been arrested but it was a blessing in disguise. I had relapsed and to make a long story short I wrecked my car on the freeway and had stolen mail in my car. I didn't steal it personally I was supposed to get rid of it and as we can read that didnt all the way happen.
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Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@mixedmomma2018 I'm Clean From Everything and now I'm pregnant which I didn't think was possible cause of my endometriosis
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@shanolas1st, ooh okay, damn
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Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@mixedmomma2018 I dnt regret nothing!
Marissa Heard·
Мама сына (1 год)
He showing that he's not emotionally invested in you. No matter what you say, how much you cry, plea and beg, he will NOT CARE. So I know it's hard but just stop. Don't even go to him for comfort because he will not comfort you.
Pull away from him and give him room to be able to go to you. If you're always pulled close to him it gives him no room or incentive to make any effort because you're already doing all the effort. Give him space and time to miss you and see what he's missing out on. If he cares eventually he will. If not then why are you going to stress and hurt yourself more? Your baby feels every ounce of stress and sadness you feel. I know it's hard to go through things alone. I went through my first pregnancy alone, though for different reasons.
But if there's one thing I've learned with men it's that if he wants to he will. Why beg and plea? Show him your strong enough to do this on your own and perhaps that will make him feel like damn, I wanna be needed too.
Fall all the way back. Don't allow yourself to hurt anymore. I know it's hard and it hurts, but trust me if you're suffocating him with your emotions, then he will only retreat back into his shell more.
I'm not saying he is in the right but I'm just letting you know how to protect yourself and possibly get him to finally open up.
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@shawtypop, Thank you, I appreciate it. I’ll try my best.. it is hard but I know what you mean.