Yesterday sucked! You would think it would have been great because we got taxes back and I paid off…

Yesterday sucked! You would think it would have been great because we got taxes back and I paid off 2 bills. But nope the kids and the boyfriend killed it. My SD is lying and wasting food, my son put another hole in the wall, my daughter pooped in her pants on purpose (she's been fully potty trained for a year, and she didn't have diarrhea) and the boyfriend lost his shit because he can't deal with this shit after being home a hole 20mins. He's aloud to have a melt down and leave to calm down but if I do it I get nothing but phone calls. Can't I ever have a good day????