I basically planned my own as well. I did get a lot of help but I had to initiate mostly everything 🤷🏾‍♀️

I don't give anyone a chance to plan me a shower. I'm a control freak lol. I like to plan my own.

@ckaitate Yes that would had been great!!! Well, Your dad still lives here right so if you do decide to visit after you have baby, i'll still be here 😄. Hahaha born and raised MN girl and i dont have plans to move to any other state.

@leangocrazy, thank you I will ❤️

@ckaitate, good luck boo .. let me kno

@leangocrazy, okay lol I’m a do that and I’ll let you know how that goes

@ckaitate I would just start a conversation about having one and being like I guess ima have to do one myself and see if someone offers lmao .. I told my parents someone was throwing me one that I thought was not gone do a good job so they said well we’ll just do it lol

@leangocrazy, I hope they do to. But I don’t want to be a pest and annoy them . How would you say it ?

Ughh I would b pissed .. u should slip it in like question but just say sumthn small about it ., I hope they surprise u

@bbyzvcy18, I wish I could’ve hung out with you when I was in Minnesota that would’ve been cool

@bbyzvcy18 that wud be cool@ckaitate idc at this point....over this baby preggo bs anyway.i jus want my baby n to be left alone

Awww.... see i really wished that most of you were from MN... i would seriously host a mommy day gir us prego ladies. Take lots og photos and have a good time.

@johnsonarriel24, yea people pick and chose who they want to do stuff for smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

@ckaitate girl this my 4th pregnancy....aint no body thrown me shit....people fake n selfish.period

@ckaitate Yess! You should do that

@alicianoelle, like a sip and see ? That would be cool because it would be warm outside since my baby Due in April. Thanks that’s a cool idea

@caseysmommy92, yea like that’s irritating asf because i could’ve did my own thing and everyone kept telling me no

@destiney, In my family it’s usually the parents or the grandparents who throws the shower but I’m a just do it next time because it’s gone be too much to try to do it now

It’s Usually The God Parent Who Throws The Shower .. Yu Can Throw Yaself A Small One Invite Immediate Fam Only Nd Close Friends

@ckaitate you can always do something small once your baby gets here. A welcoming party have about 30 guest they can still bring gifts and it can still be like a baby shower

@alicianoelle, yea I wanted to have a baby shower really bad I had been talking about it to everyone since I got pregnant. But it’s whatever my feelings are hurt but I’ll get over it.

@ckaitate I know how you must feel you really wanna experience every aspect of pregnancy especially when it's your first.

@lulu85_18, no it’s ok . I’m not gone lie I’m was upset about it but it’s okay. You can’t force people to do nothing they don’t want to do.

@arien, I was going to do that originally but everyone was like you should wait and see people are going to give you a shower. But it’s too late now it’s last minute so I don’t think people will show .

@ckaitate, aw. That’s messed up. I’m sorry.

@lulu85_18, no I asked my aunt she tells me everything. She said my other-aunt said who gone come to her baby shower so it’s no point of giving her one. I was like oh ok so I guess no one was going to show up no problem.

@arien, yea but I guess I’ll do my own next time.

Families usually do that.. if my don’t I already decided to have a small dinner get together with a couple of people 💰💰😂😂 and yes get a few gifts 🛍🛍🛍🎁

Is it possible someone is planning a surprise shower?

I mean hey.. you’re right! That’s weird