Just found out that my daughter is a carrier like me of what my son has. He has genetic syndrome…

Just found out that my daughter is a carrier like me of what my son has. He has genetic syndrome that their is no cure for yet . It upsets me that when she gets old enough to have kids. If she has a boy then she will go through what me and my so went through with my son . Plenty of hospital stays and had a feeding tube and a trach at 3 years old if he didn't have this stuff then he more then like wouldn't be here today. Cause he was so sick growing up . I Just don't know what to think other then not having any of kinda of syndrome