So it doesn’t look like my hubby is coming back. It’s not something I really like to talk about, but he has some issues…

Sorry that you are going through this. Unfortunately life doesn't always work out the way we always want it too. It seems that you are making the right decision for you and your kids. And hey,you never know what the future brings....he can solve his issues or you meet another amazing man and have another wonderful child. And you know what, it will still be ok.

Hugs

Sorry to hear that girl, but as you know sometimes it’s for the best 😙😚😘 @alecandfrankiesmum, keep your head up girl!!!

Omg I’m so sorry!! Message me if you want to talk...

Sorry to hear that mama! I’ll be thinking of you 💕

That's really crappie hun but you can get through this.. Your a great mom, beautiful woman there are so many positives here that he is missing out. He may change and you can reconcile but it hurts now I know. I have three kids for three different men and I use to same the same thing but when I married my husband and got pregnant my perspectives changed. Doesn't make me less of a person. There are women out there who have kids from the same man and there relationships are shyt, if you ask me that's crazy. Why keep making babies for a man who treats you like shyt that makes no sense to me. A guy I used to chat with said to me, oh you have two kids... different fathers.. 😏I said yes 🙄 ready to curse him out lol.. He said well at least you tryed to get it right oppose to women who keep getting pregnant for a deadbeat or selfish dude and thinking babies are going to make it better and he is miraculously going to change. I wasn't married to the first father, he was an alcoholic and abusive, 6 yrs later had my daughter lived with my ex for over 10yrs and 4yrs before I got pregnant and he went to Afghanistan (military) a few times and came back worse each time, so I had to flee with my kids. I married my love even though I wanna strangle him sometimes (nothing is perfect no matter what ppl say) but by far nothing like my exes. So the third one put a ring on it put me in a house with two kids and just loved us. I rather have this story to tell than be with any of the exes and have multiple children with them to say they have same fathers. If you ever need to vent I'm here for you 😘

@brynsmommie, thank you

@starting_over39, thank you. I think the image of a happy family I had with this man is what’s making it so hard, but I need to keep reminding myself that I can never have that with him because there is always the chance of him snapping on us. It justifies makes it harder because he wants us so bad, and he truly wants to change, but he can’t seem to do it. He will be broken without us, but I can’t stay with him for his happiness.

@ev14, thank you

@alecandfrankiesmum that makes sense.. You have to think about your sanity and maybe him be broken isn't a bad thing, probably will propel him to dig deeper and work on himself in the long run