ladies i just need to vent im so frustrated i feel like my man is settling for the job he has now…
ladies i just need to vent
im so frustrated i feel like my man is settling for the job he has now which is commision based and right now its super slow . he literallt has made 30 $today and hes been there since 11 am . he works 6 days a week and he really isnt seeing the money for it . im annoyed he has no record ,he speaks spanish and a little english and is tatted up but i feel like he should be trying to find a new job before baby girl comes but hes so comfortable he is just settling . i just want my daughter to have a good future and a home to grow up in i dont want her to grow up living in apartments ..i want the best for her and sometimes i feel like until i start working we will never get anywhere in life
sorry vent over
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Have you told him?
Genesis·
@beemommyof3 i have not because when we lived alone paying rent and i brought it up to him all he would say is tjat all i cared about was what he makes and i dont feel like arguin
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A relationship is about communication, not arguing. So you need to be able to voice your concerns to your partner or what type of relationship will you have.
Genesis·
@beemommyof3 yeahh i guess im just scared of voicing my concerns because i feel like i cant complain and i feel ungrateful since im not working and its only him
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So he makes enough for you to stay home?
Genesis·
@beemommyof3 well thats the thing we came from p.r in oct due to hurricane maria and my parents took us in
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Okay so he isnt even paying for himself then. You need to say something about that. Its not an argument and yes you can voice your concerns and you can also get a job to help
Genesis·
@beemommyof3 when we came back i was already 5 months and i couldnt find a job so he told me to stay home untim baby gets here ,we dont pay rent all we pay is phone bill and credir card payment but im just stuck thinking bout when we gonna move everyrhings gonna be on my shoulders
Genesis·
@beemommyof3 i cant get a job im 7 months already and i have issues going on with my baby girl that i have weekly appts ... its just too much going on even if i get a job ill get fired quick
Genesis·
@beemommyof3 i guess my concern is when my baby girl gets here and i start working i want to move out and do better for our baby girl but if he stays there we wont ever succeed
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Agreed and that is what you talk about. It isnt an arguing to speak about your future with your spouse.
Genesis·
@beemommyof3 yeahh i will try but as soon as i see things going southh i close up and my walls come up again...