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Shaylynn Adams
Shaylynn Adams
Мама дочки (2 года)

My man, not married but basically we are. Has been watching porn every single morning. says I act like I am not…

My man, not married but basically we are. Has been watching porn every single morning. says I act like I am not attracted to him when he tried. But he said that because I didn't have sex after I caught him watching porn on Valentine's because he forgot what day it was. Until he found a gift under his towel that morning Now he random freaks out on me, anything he fucked up on he blames me and freaks out. We have dealt with him cheating a few times. We have been together for 5 years now. I know you may be thinking 'just leave' but I can't I'm still trying to get my diploma online and get a career going. Other wise I'm on SSI with a two year old. On top of him treating me like I'm just a piece of ass. He never changes his daughter, only plays on his video games and stays up till I fall asleep.

I need some real advice besides 'break up' or 'leave him'

Please I'm a mom just needing help comping with my situation

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kat616

Kat

Мама дочки (1 год)

https://www.lovetakeslearning.com/

@foreveramamma, here's a recommendation. I've taught these classes and they're wonderful. I wish they had it in more locations, but I'm glad they have it online too. I wish the best for you.

I'm in school too, by the way! Kudos to you- it's seriously hard doing school with kids.

forevera.mamma

Shaylynn Adams

Мама дочки (2 года)

@kat616 I am not sure how he would handle that. Maybe if we took classes he wouldn't feel so pressured.

forevera.mamma

Shaylynn Adams

Мама дочки (2 года)

It happens . I've left him and came back last year in January. But it just doesn't seem like he's changed

wafflez

Mom Mom Mom Mom

Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

@foreveramamma I'm sorry your going threw this I went threw similar.

kat616

Kat

Мама дочки (1 год)

Is he willing to put any effort into the relationship? Maybe see a marriage therapist or, for less pressure, a marriage enhancement class? I'm sorry you're going through this, that's hard.

forevera.mamma

Shaylynn Adams

Мама дочки (2 года)

Thank you @wafflez I appreciate your advice

wafflez

Mom Mom Mom Mom

Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Well depends what you want advice on. Only you are going to decide wether your going to stay or go, yeah staying right now might be finicaily easier but emotionaly its going to wreck you. Of course hes going to blame you for his indiscretions some will actually pick a fight before they go to do there actions so they feel no guilt after. Whether your staying or going focus on your child an you! Keep on with getting your diploma. Pamper yourself. Spend time with your kiddle an forget him only talk to him when needed not for small talk an ignore any remarks it'll be very hard

forevera.mamma

Shaylynn Adams

Мама дочки (2 года)

Because he say he is the only one who's ID and name is on the rental contract.

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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How can he kick you out of your home?

forevera.mamma

Shaylynn Adams

Мама дочки (2 года)

Plus I am 10 hours away from any of my personal Family members

forevera.mamma

Shaylynn Adams

Мама дочки (2 года)

We have a house together, he goes to work paying rent I pay the rest of the bills. Last night he threatened to kick me out because I brought of a person name.

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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So question, why do you need him to go to school?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex…

Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!