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Shaylynn Adams
forevera.mamma
Shaylynn Adams
My man, not married but basically we are. Has been watching porn every single morning. says I act like I am not attracted to him when he tried. But he said that because I didn't have sex after I caught him watching porn on Valentine's because he forgot what day it was. Until he found a gift under his towel that morning Now he random freaks out on me, anything he fucked up on he blames me and freaks out. We have dealt with him cheating a few times. We have been together for 5 years now. I know you may be thinking 'just leave' but I can't I'm still trying to get my diploma online and get a career going. Other wise I'm on SSI with a two year old. On top of him treating me like I'm just a piece of ass. He never changes his daughter, only plays on his video games and stays up till I fall asleep.
I need some real advice besides 'break up' or 'leave him'
Please I'm a mom just needing help comping with my situation
16.02.2018

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kat616
kat616
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@foreveramamma, here's a recommendation. I've taught these classes and they're wonderful. I wish they had it in more locations, but I'm glad they have it online too. I wish the best for you.
I'm in school too, by the way! Kudos to you- it's seriously hard doing school with kids.
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forevera.mamma
forevera.mamma
@kat616 I am not sure how he would handle that. Maybe if we took classes he wouldn't feel so pressured.
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forevera.mamma
forevera.mamma
It happens . I've left him and came back last year in January. But it just doesn't seem like he's changed
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wafflez
wafflez
@foreveramamma I'm sorry your going threw this I went threw similar.
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kat616
kat616
Is he willing to put any effort into the relationship? Maybe see a marriage therapist or, for less pressure, a marriage enhancement class? I'm sorry you're going through this, that's hard.
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forevera.mamma
forevera.mamma
Thank you @wafflez I appreciate your advice
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wafflez
wafflez
Well depends what you want advice on. Only you are going to decide wether your going to stay or go, yeah staying right now might be finicaily easier but emotionaly its going to wreck you. Of course hes going to blame you for his indiscretions some will actually pick a fight before they go to do there actions so they feel no guilt after. Whether your staying or going focus on your child an you! Keep on with getting your diploma. Pamper yourself. Spend time with your kiddle an forget him only talk to him when needed not for small talk an ignore any remarks it'll be very hard
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forevera.mamma
forevera.mamma
Because he say he is the only one who's ID and name is on the rental contract.
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How can he kick you out of your home?
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forevera.mamma
forevera.mamma
Plus I am 10 hours away from any of my personal Family members
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forevera.mamma
forevera.mamma
We have a house together, he goes to work paying rent I pay the rest of the bills. Last night he threatened to kick me out because I brought of a person name.
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So question, why do you need him to go to school?
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