Okay I'm starting to feel overwhelmed my 1 year old is getting into everything and not listening and…

Okay I'm starting to feel overwhelmed my 1 year old is getting into everything and not listening and I can't get to him because I have to tend to the littlest my husband and I had this arrangement beforehand that he'd take care of the oldest while I focus on the baby for the first few months but my husband is terrible at multitasking it isn't until I'm yelling stop that he's coming to get him wat did I get myself into omg #venting