Как справиться с финансовыми трудностями из-за ошибки мужа?

Ugh my husband has overdrafted our account after him knowing what was coming out and not to touch that money now I am going to have to put money I don't have back so we are okay with other bills that need to get paid so that mean my birthday money I will be getting tomorrow will be put back because of his fuck up yay me the one time I was actually going to spend the money on myself. I don't even have money to go out and by myself a drink and I don't even want to go out now I just want to cry. I had a friend say let go shopping for your birthday outfit and I just told her I was going to wear what I had at home because I was too embarrassed to tell her I don't have money to. I am just over all and I am going to go cry.