So frustrated with my hubby!!! Ugh!! I love him. He’s my partner. For the most part, we make a great…

So frustrated with my hubby!!! Ugh!! I love him. He’s my partner. For the most part, we make a great team. However, he is SO SELF-CENTERED!! I just don’t understand it. It’s like the whole world has to revolve around him when he wants something, how he wants it, and who he wants it with.. everything has to line up to his expectations or he gets pissed. It’s insane! I tell him all the time that I’ve honestly never known anyone as selfish as him.

Yesterday, for example, he came home from work. I go in earlier than him so I get off earlier than him, so I had been home with the kids for about two hours already. My littlest one was cranky and needed a nap so my daughter had gone to lay him down to get him to sleep.

My hubby proceeds to walk in the door, walk right past me, asking where his son is because he wants to see him. “Where’s Will? I haven’t seen him all day. I want to see my son.” I tell him he’s gone to lay down for a nap and he doesn’t even care. He keeps repeating himself and heads straight for the bedroom and wakes them both up when he walks in the door (my daughter had fallen asleep with our son).

I’m standing there like really?!?! He needs a damn nap and all you can think about is what YOU WANT?!! Ugh it drives me insane!!!!!!!! 😡 Its stupid crap like this all the time. Like he’s in his own world where only he matters and his wants and needs are always top priority. When I call him out on it, it turns into an argument and then later he apologizes and tells me I was right and he doesn’t know why he acts like that sometimes. I keep telling him to just stop and use his damn brain because the world doesn’t revolve around him. When things of his go missing in the house, he always blames one of us first, always! When I don’t answer my texts right away he assumes I’m ignoring him, and I never have, not once. It’s like we are all out to get him or something. He’s so damn insecure and selfish it’s unreal.

(Note he’s a good man he’s not literally always like this. Usually we get along just great but when he’s in selfish mode omg I want to knock him)