Venting...

Every time we argue and he gets angry, he packs his things and leaves. He did it again today, on Valentine's day. It started with me asking him to get our newborn because he was crying and I was making dinner. He said, "Just because I pick him up, it doesn't mean he'll stop crying". I didn't say anything, stopped what I was doing in the kitchen and went to comfort my son. He said, "what?", three times. I said, "nothing". He said, "you didn't have to pick him up, you just wanted to make a point, you just wanted to control the situation". It escalated from there.

We don't live together and he spent the past 2 nights at his house. Two nights with uninterrupted sleep. The last time I had a night of uninterrupted sleep was sometime in January or February 2016. Now I'm home alone with a toddler and a newborn questioning everything.