So .. how long do you really have to wait to try and conceive again after having a miscarriage?..…

So .. how long do you really have to wait to try and conceive again after having a miscarriage?.. Its been hard but i know deep in my heart this is all iv ever wanted my heart goes out to children completey i work with them all day long im surrounded but when i go home after work .. Im alone not fully but i feel empty my life is missing its bliss and thats the growth of a family of true happiness and thats a child of your own if this time doesn't work ill adopt but i always said i would adopt either way to savea child and give them the world who wouldnt wanna make that change .. i just wanna have this experience to grow and show and feel all the love and time together during those 9 months thats what makes you a mother after all isnt it the experience and your journey .. just venting for the night but still need an answer and can you drink during the miscarriage..? Help thoughts