Okay so I am seeking opinions the good, bad, and the ugly! Okay so my son turned 3 Saturday and his…

I would be pissed

I would be livid. You definitely have the right to be mad.

I’d be infuriated! You need to have a sit down with her about this

If u know how she is then no, I wouldn’t let someone get ur hopes up just to disappoint you, if u continue to put yourself in that situation then it becomes your fault, I was in your situation not with my mother tho, and I just removed myself from it... good luck momma, don’t let know one make you that upset ❤️

@damiensmommy1117 @rikki.ferguson Trust me I am, She just started this on his second birthday and I just cant do this with her anymore.

@lizibear84 I have multiple times and she swears she will be there but always gives me some crazy excuse like on Christmas her dog was pregnant and she said she just couldn't leave her.

@jellybeans_mumm She didn't always do this but this was the second birthday she missed. I called her the day before and she sounded completely fine and swore she wouls come and see her grandsons then right before the time of the party she had my aunt call me( who also didnt show) to tell me last minute she wasn't coming. Then she messaged me earlier like nothing was wrong but when I tell her that what she did was wrong she either doesnt reply or she cusses me out and tells me how much it is my fault because I won't always drive to her house and bring them to her. She said that she shouldnt have to drive to see her grandkids that I am being disrespectful because I wont drive 45 minutes to bring them to her so she wont have to come to our house. And if I ignore her she blows mine and my husbands phone up saying that I will be sorry for ignoring her when she is dead and gone and it just hurts me that she does this!

@savanna_garcia, you shouldn’t have to drive to take your kids to see your mother, if it was that important to her she would make a effort to see them, don’t let her get to you you don’t need that in your life or your kids life , don’t keep giving in clearly it’s not hurting her for her to continue to act the way she does .

@jellybeans_mumm I had to remove her off all of my accounts because all she would do is take picture that I post of the boys and to top that off she would just stop calling and messaging to check on them. Your right she doesn't care I just don't know how someone could do this. I'm not even sure how to get her to understand that I am done with this and her understand that I am serious.

@savanna_garcia, She won’t take u serious until u actually put ur foot down and keep it down, clearly she don’t care her actions are showing it, it’s good you removed her , it’s going to be hard cause it’s your mom and you love her but she just hurts you and continues to get your hopes up, the last thing you don’t want is to have your babies in that situation when they are waiting for her to come and you see that sad look on there face of her disappointing them

@jellybeans_mumm Your right! It is hard but it needs done. I just hate this, I shouldn't have to be like this to my mom. I just don't see whats happened to her.

@savanna_garcia, moms are always going to be difficult you just either got to learn to deal with them, or just cut off there ways, it is going to be hard but I’m sure your husband supports you and will be there for and of course us mommas are here for you to! Good luck momma, don’t stress yourself out on “ asking yourself why” she acts the way she does.. sometimes it’s not met for us to understand ... but ur strong u have to kids u already conquered the hardest part of life . Your a mom! Everything else is a piece of cake ❤️

@jellybeans_mumm Thank you that really means alot! and yes he is very supportive! It will be hard but its for the best. Again, Thank you!

@savanna_garcia, aww you don’t need to thank me, good luck tho! Keep me posted ❤️