Is it wrong of me to think that my fiancé’s female friends should also be friends with me?

They should be friendly with you but people need their own friends.

@kambam, right I guess that’s what I mean not really friends but civil

Not at all. If they aren’t, then don’t need to be friends with him.

My opinion !

Haha for our shower we are basically doing a pamper party and baby shower combined. But I told him he can only invite his guy friends because I don’t know all the girls they are dating/engaged/married to.

PLUS it’s not really co-ed it’s just we combined the parties, if that make sense?

Are they not friendly with you? Definitely should be but not everyone is on that maturity level yet

@kambam, I mean there’s only one in particular and he just had a conversation with her and deleted it.

I mean I could understand if they don't hang out with just you, sometimes people just don't click that way but they definitely should be friendly when they do see you and not be weird about talking to you in anyway. Thats just how I feel though

Weird... well just trust your gut. If something is off then speak your mind but gotta have some trust too!

@kambam, I do I have a lot of trust usually he lets me see it or he doesn’t delete stuff why he did this time idk.

It was probably just really stupid. Something he wouldn't want you to see and not get upset over because it's not worth it. Cuz I've totally been there lol

No you're not wrong either they're friends with you or he gets rid of them because I don't think that when y'all get married that you should have male friends that are not friends with him and he should have female friends that are not friends with you because if they're friends can't be friends with him and his female friends can't be friends with you then y'all need to get rid of them now I think you can have girls that are friends and you can have males that are friend but he cannot have girls that are friends with just him and not you just the same you can't have male friends if it just friends with you and not him now you can have female friend but that's how I feel about the whole thing

I'm the odd one I guess. I don't think husbands should have female friends and I don't think wives should have male friends that aren't all friends together. And i definitely don't think a husband or wife should be texting the opposite sex. It doesn't look good and some females like to take things a step further. Even some males don't care that you're in a relationship. And if he's deleting messages he's hiding something. EXACTLY why it's not good to text the opposite sex. 😑