Umm question if you're husband kid out one of your kids and you left with that kid and you also had…

Umm question if you're husband kid out one of your kids and you left with that kid and you also had a 3 years old would you leave with out them and or not see him for two days even though you have no job and you husband is working he is at his grandma house. That a not knowing when you are going to go back home??? I sorry I couldn't do that I would be taking all my kids and or see my kids.