Why don't men understand what us stay at home moms do on a daily basis?! My hubby just said something that triggered a…

@skyy12221, I’m dealing with the same thing my husband feels like he has to do NOTHING around the house because he works and I stay at home and should have to do everything and on top of that take care of the kids even on his days off .

I feel you 😒 I understand he works hard every day & I always show him appreciation. but I would love some appreciation as well, for what I do everyday

I relate to this so much. My fiancé half jokingly said that it was the woman's role to take care of the kids and clean the house and the mans job to go to work and do maintenance which of course I laughed at and we were able to make fun of because it's 2018 and we all know that's not true but THEN he told me seriously that he'd so much rather do what I do everyday instead of go to work and I had to bite my tongue because he literally has NO IDEA what it's like staying at home with a baby and trying to get things done. I am pumping every two hours, going to school full time online, working part time online, doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, dishes, etc and he sits at a desk job filling out and signing papers. When he's home he barely helps with the baby and even if he does I usually have to step in because my child always wants me to talk to her and take care of her instead.

@mamizamorano17 same here! I hate it.@josiemnroe I totally understand that. Pretty much my hubby said he had to get his own shower clothes..I've been laying his shower clothes out before he gets home for over 3 years and today I didn't get a chance to because I had my almost 4 month old cry almost all day and the older two were so hyper and mean to each other. I put them down for a nap and maybe 15-20mins my 4 month old woke up he usually sleeps a long time though anyways I told him what the kids did all day and didn't have time and he says I've heard that before and whenever I don't do something I always blame it on the kids.

@mommabear1014 my kids a lot of times don't like their dad and come to me a lot

@skyy12221, i hate to say this but mom's love and patience are just so much stronger and babies know that

@mommabear1014 I'm not mad about that and I know it, I see it often with my boys. I wish things were different.

@skyy12221, same.

yes girl im also a stay at home mommy and my husband swear up and down all me and the baby do is sleep. im like first off im cleaning up the house and laundry, and dinner and baby like im doing more work then you are and on top of that im stuck in houswe! smh

@mamizamorano17 yess same, like where the heck do they get off with this stuff smh