"You either be physical and play sports with the boys, or play on the jungle gym with the girls. I…

"You either be physical and play sports with the boys, or play on the jungle gym with the girls. I wanted it all. I would not settle for any rules about my gender because I was like, I wanna go in the woods, play with bugs, dig out some clay from the creek bed, make my mom a cute little pot for her flowers, fight with sticks for a little while, get cleaned up, put on a tutu, dance around my house to Britney Spears, and then go to bed. "

Allow Genderqueer star Jacob Tobia to explain what being...