My husband pisses me off! He fights with me and turns everything around and says it’s my fault! He calls me names and…

My husband pisses me off! He fights with me and turns everything around and says it’s my fault! He calls me names and says horrible stuff to me when he’s the one who starts the fights and I ignore him because he wants to act childish! Then he plays the victim card and feels sorry for himself! Who does that!?!? Who stars and fight then plays the victim card if anyone is the victims it’s me! You called me names! You said horrible shit to me! You don’t get to play the victim! I tell him all the time he can’t play the victim when he comes and attacks me like that. That’s not how it works!