Only 20 yrs old and I feel like I should have my whole life together by now .. I’ve had my own…

Only 20 yrs old and I feel like I should have my whole life together by now .. I’ve had my own apartment since 18, just career/financially .. I guess . I know I got time and Omar makes great money to support us, so thankful .. but I think cause I am a mother and I have somebody depending on me I feel the need to be set already .. 😭 it drives me crazy