Anyone else ever watch Mrs. Doubtfire and relate with the mom? I grew up loving this movie and Robin…

Anyone else ever watch Mrs. Doubtfire and relate with the mom? I grew up loving this movie and Robin Williams' character and thinking the mom was unbearable and uptight only to grow up, become a mom and find myself relating to her and being angry through the movie until the end when the husband FINALLY shapes up and starts contributing as a dad and husband.

I have only one child who is 8 months old and have been asking my husband to help out more, but does it for a while and then gets lazy and I've begun to resent him. Is this normal? I feel horrible for feeling this way. We both work full time, I rarely get time for myself yet my hubby thinks he can live his old lifestyle of doing whatever he wants with his buddies whenever he wants.