Considering getting my tubes tied or hubby getting a vasectomy after babys born. Need opinions..

My hubby is getting a vasectomy. I've heard less negative things and my reproductive organs have gone through enough abuse.

@worlds.okayest.mom he really wants one more he wants a boy, but if i decide ill try for one more im getting on birth control and waiting 5 to 6 years before i have anothet

@spencermomof4 I understand. We're(potentially) doing the BC method for 2 years before making our decision. Neither of us want another baby, but it's just that finality of having that choice taken away from us that's bothering me.

He is getting a vasectomy

@worlds.okayest.mom yea were planning on doing same or another plan were waiting about year befire we decide

@beemommyof3 no we dont know yet

No, i was saying what mine is doing lol

My husband was talking to a friend about getting a vasectomy because his friend had and he told him he constantly feels like he's been kicked in the balls since. Needless to say my hubby decided not to 🤣 but I don't think problems like that are common

@beemommyof3 oh lol

@mommy2be3 lol, my brother just had one abiut month ago he complains all time but dont sound thst bad if you have good dr

But if you do get your tubes tied and wait awhile after having your baby I'd say be careful. I got my tubes tied in November and found out a month later I was already pregnant when they did the surgery

@mommy2be3 that happened to my sister she just had her baby

Some babies are just meant to be here apparently 🤷

@mommy2be3 yes, that's why we're talking about him getting vasectomy