Ugh. So I guess condoms it is. I've tried every bc pretty much and I don't want to gain weight like…

I'm getting them cut I'm positive I don't want anymore kids

@verguinia I don't want anymore either! They won't do it cause in only 22

@twinmomma2b oh wow really I didn't know that

Yeah I have two kids but they said I have to be 25

I hear ya girl...I had to come off it too

I plan to use those ovulation sticks and track my cycle that way. Mine have been pretty regular since my first pregnancy. I really can’t stand birth control and I’m allergic to latex.

He won’t consider getting the snip snip?

^ I was gonna ask, would he consider getting himself fixed so that was it wouldn’t be an issue?

@lulu85_18 @littleonemorning I asked and got the big "HELL NO!" Yeah it would be easier for both of us and not have to worry about it but he says it will never ever ever happen

@twinmomma2b, 🙄 then he better suck it up.

@littleonemorning I know right! He said "why don't you get your tubes tied" um yeah I did! I basically begged the lady to tie them during my entire pregnancy. Every visit I asked her to tie them after the babies. She said she would and then before I had them she tokd me she couldn't because she didn't realize how young I was (21). He said "well, you didn't try hard enough. There is always that one Dr that'll tie them if you just ask" 😐😫😡

@twinmomma2b, wow. Although I did know they most places won’t do it until you’re 25. Which I think is crazy because if you don’t want babies, that’s your choice. Not there’s.

It is less painful for a guy. You are the one who went through all the pain and had babies. This is the least he can do. He only has to be resting for a day or two - virtually no recovery time!

Good luck

@littleonemorning found out I was lied to by the ob I was going to when I was pregnant. She said I couldn't because I was 21. Well the ob I went to today said I can in this state have it done at 21.

@twinmomma2b, that’s awesome. I still would see if your husband could do it, but it might be worth your wild. Some doctors say no because “you’ll change your mind.” Or some nonsense like that.

@littleonemorning yeah that's what she tokd me earlier. It's bs. I do not want anymore. And even if I did I cannot afford another baby. I just don't want to risk ever having another baby. It was too much on me through pregnancy and now taking care of two plus my husband. I'm definetly 100% sure I do not want anymore. It's like Dr's aren't hearing me

@twinmomma2b, it’s because you’re “young and don’t know what you want.” I nannied for a woman who wanted her tubes tied and she was only 22 and the doctors literally laughed and told her they weren’t going to do it even though she knew having more kids and her husband being gone all the time would kill her. She was literally in tears telling me that. So I’ve seen it.

Hopefully something gives. ❤️