So question this is bothering me alot so since me and my girls still live with my hubby mom and I…
So question this is bothering me alot so since me and my girls still live with my hubby mom and I had aa that bond with my second born that won't go away will because I don't want it to but seeing her hanging with her nana she won't be able to take the bond away can she like she did with my first born 😯😓 and along with her aunt to. Sorry I'm just worried because I don't have that bond like she does with her daddy and get sigh her nana so I'm trying to have t hat bond with my second baby girl.
Lacie Marie·
Its possible to get that bond back with your oldest daughter as well. You have the power of keeping/gaining a bond with your daughters. No one can steal it from you unless you let them.
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@laciemarie will see the grandmother took that from me and when o try to get it back with oldest she just wants to listen to whatever daddy and nana say cause apparently I frustrate her it's sooo hard with her sorry to say this with the bitch of a grandmother and aunt who teacher her really bad habits
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
So that's why I'm trying to build it stronger with Reilly and I
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@laciemarie because his mom finally is stepping away and letting me be the parent to my child cause I guess she noticed hopefully that she screwed up with my first one.
Lacie Marie·
@amelliaholmes1457 well one thing is YOU are the MOTHER not her. Your going to "frustrate" your kids at times. Just like they will frustrate you. If you show your oldest that you her MOM will be listened to, and will be respected your bond could grow back with her. It doesnt matter what the grandma wants. It matters what you want with YOUR babies. Remeber that and keep strong.
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@laciemarie thank you and I will cause when she said that daddy took care of it last night when he heard her say that to me.