@baybiijord thanks just i wasnt going to go to freinds party as no one to watch wyatt as my whole family was going wyatt got invited i brought him alone but cause of music and the noise he cryed he did laugh n that but i just felt like a terrible mum i couldn't stop crying i kept getting dirty looks im a new mum a single mum struggling as it is just didnt help with dirty looks i was getting even now im at my auntys my son asleep now but I can't stop crying and thinking im a bad mum xxx
@emmawestmumtowyattwest Ohh no hun your not a bad mum, and its good that you went and took your little boy, you didnt leave him, you didnt neglect him you was just socializing with friends and family, theres no harm in a baby crying thats what they do when they get tired and it was probs past his bed time there for when were tired we get stroppy. But he also enjoyed it alittle while so with him laughing and probs looking at all the amazing lights. Sod the arrogant people that have nuffing else better to look at. Your doing just fine. U keep up ur hard work and u will see just how good u are to ur little boy in the end xx
@baybiijord thanks means alot i get so worked up and overwhelmed also over think things just i get so anxious and its hard for me to be out and about and that but wyatt needs to socialize aswell instead if being cooped up in the house all the time.
Even though i have my brother my mum its tough and hard never thought be like this to be honnest i cry so much more now before i even had wyatt and think so low i do but glad there other mums that understand and that dont think its wrong for me to do that thank you so much just to here that its ok i have no idea if ok or not every one has there opinions and that just felts like a terrible mum for some reason wyatt is my everything my world xxx
You dont need to thank me hun, were all here to help.. and yes hun im just the same over think things ect but your right its really good for babies to socialize and get fresh air.. its also good you cry as ur letting out all your frustrations/ emotions keeping it in will make it a whole lot worse. Its crazy how just having the one child can make your life, feelings and day to day activities so different, to how they use to be, but we adjust becuz we have to and it sounds to me your a great mum and you have wyatt's needs on ur mind constantly which is brill. But hun take some time out to when hes napping have a nice soak in the bath, paint ur nails do things u enjoy just to have some me time is good and no it doesnt mean ur a bad mom for taking time out we all need it. Anytime u need a chat message me il always be here to help xx
@baybiijord he a good sleeper at night he sleeps from normally his last bottels either half nine or ten and he sleeps after untill the morning he wakes either between nine or ten depends on him really he a good sleeper jist during the day he hardly sleeps and gets cranky cause wont sleep and that just hard really xx
jordan·
@emmawestmumtowyattwest Ohh hun ur not a terrible mum and im sure you son wouldnt think u are either.. chin up! Here if u wanna chat x
Emma ·
@baybiijord thanks just i wasnt going to go to freinds party as no one to watch wyatt as my whole family was going wyatt got invited i brought him alone but cause of music and the noise he cryed he did laugh n that but i just felt like a terrible mum i couldn't stop crying i kept getting dirty looks im a new mum a single mum struggling as it is just didnt help with dirty looks i was getting even now im at my auntys my son asleep now but I can't stop crying and thinking im a bad mum xxx
jordan·
@emmawestmumtowyattwest Ohh no hun your not a bad mum, and its good that you went and took your little boy, you didnt leave him, you didnt neglect him you was just socializing with friends and family, theres no harm in a baby crying thats what they do when they get tired and it was probs past his bed time there for when were tired we get stroppy. But he also enjoyed it alittle while so with him laughing and probs looking at all the amazing lights. Sod the arrogant people that have nuffing else better to look at. Your doing just fine. U keep up ur hard work and u will see just how good u are to ur little boy in the end xx
Emma ·
@baybiijord thanks means alot i get so worked up and overwhelmed also over think things just i get so anxious and its hard for me to be out and about and that but wyatt needs to socialize aswell instead if being cooped up in the house all the time.
Even though i have my brother my mum its tough and hard never thought be like this to be honnest i cry so much more now before i even had wyatt and think so low i do but glad there other mums that understand and that dont think its wrong for me to do that thank you so much just to here that its ok i have no idea if ok or not every one has there opinions and that just felts like a terrible mum for some reason wyatt is my everything my world xxx
jordan·
You dont need to thank me hun, were all here to help.. and yes hun im just the same over think things ect but your right its really good for babies to socialize and get fresh air.. its also good you cry as ur letting out all your frustrations/ emotions keeping it in will make it a whole lot worse. Its crazy how just having the one child can make your life, feelings and day to day activities so different, to how they use to be, but we adjust becuz we have to and it sounds to me your a great mum and you have wyatt's needs on ur mind constantly which is brill. But hun take some time out to when hes napping have a nice soak in the bath, paint ur nails do things u enjoy just to have some me time is good and no it doesnt mean ur a bad mom for taking time out we all need it. Anytime u need a chat message me il always be here to help xx
Emma ·
@baybiijord thanks hun i try to have some me time but doesn't work out that way sometimes but yeah and will do 😊 xx
jordan·
@emmawestmumtowyattwest it will do in time when wyatt sleeps longer ect. X
Emma ·
@baybiijord he a good sleeper at night he sleeps from normally his last bottels either half nine or ten and he sleeps after untill the morning he wakes either between nine or ten depends on him really he a good sleeper jist during the day he hardly sleeps and gets cranky cause wont sleep and that just hard really xx